Thursday, August 14, 2014

Of recent

RIP, dear sir Robin Williams, my most favourite actor. Aiyo, why is he so 'unable to see through life' 怎么这么想不开呀??as chinese saying.

Months ago, a family friend of ours (my Uncle Henrick's school mate) also hanged himself because of depression he suffered for some years. And I was suffering depressions too after childbirth. Based on my experience, during that difficult time if we meet with the wrong person and hearing the wrong the 'words', it is really depressing. What I did was I went to the temple more often, that itself was a challenging task - carrying one toddler and a baby to the crowded and smoky temple. But I did that with the help from my husband.
One of my girl best friends was suffering for some kind pre-marriage depressions for almost half a year. She was seeking consultation from doctors and finally able to overcome it. She says going to church does help her.
So, those suffering depression, pack you bag and head to the temple if you're a Buddhist; believes in your religion and God will lead you out. Seek for forgiveness or whatever, just tell the God. It is much better than telling to kind hearted bad person -  好心的坏人。